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Single ParentingRachel - Conference organizer works three days a week nine months of the year, sharing care of pre-school aged daughter with a local childcare center and the support of friends.
Family Story:

Before adopting her baby daughter Alice, Rachel worked as a nurse. During the adoption process she decided to take an extended maternity leave so that she could meet her daughter in China and then have time for them both to adjust to their new situation once they arrived back in the U.S.

By planning in advance Rachel was able to arrange a four-month maternity leave. When she returned to her job she found that she could work 20-30 hours a week and still support herself and her daughter. However, Rachel became increasingly aware that Alice needed more individualized attention than Rachel could provide.

As a single parent, her understanding of the importance of extended family and a close community grew. After much consideration Rachel moved one-year-old Alice and herself from Texas to Philadelphia so that they could share a home with close friends. This move provided a number of significant benefits. First, Rachel now has the extra support of living with other adults. They help each other with childcare and often sort out parenting questions together. Second, her daughter has a close, sibling-like relationship with the other family's child. Third, living communally saves on expenses.

After moving, Rachel found a flexible job as a conference organizer. Nine months of the year she works the equivalent of three days a week. Three months of the year, during conference season, she works full time. When she is working she uses outside childcare. For Rachel, the short-term financial sacrifices that she has made to spend significant time with her daughter are far outweighed by the long-term benefits of being deeply involved in her daughter’s life.

Adapting to the Changing Needs of Family
After an extended four-month maternity leave, Rachel decided to reduce her work schedule in order to spend more time with her daughter. For additional support in parenting, she moved from Texas to Philadelphia to live with close friends.
Redesigning Work

Rachel went from full-time work to steady part-time work with a flexible schedule. For nine months of the year she works the equivalent of three days a week. She works full time the other three months of the year.

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